Hu Mengyin, graduates in Beijing Chen exercises statesmanship the middle school, was admitted to Beijing Industrial university department of English. “facing the college entrance examination, has the pressure is very normal,” Hu Mengyin said that “my magic weapon is asks the human to chat frequently, specially father and mother, this is the very good adjustment method.” “remembered has 34 day-long time to the college entrance examination, the school has a vacation to us, lets student review in the home. ” Hu Mengyin recalls said that “one day of evening, I feel suddenly uneasy whether sitting or standing, group chaotic, did not know at heart should do anything.”She said that “I gathered submit a written statement, leave the room to see the father. He asked that I have any matter, I said to him ......” that day, the father and daughter chat the time is not long. “the father exhibits an indifferent appearance, said to me, the college entrance examination is only first step, added that my very outstanding - - `anything at the worst, has not tested, you work as women's football referee! 'I ha smile.”Hu Mengyin said that after chatting, she felt that is relaxed. “my particularly grateful my father mother. Child high three time, the guardian this asks the child to chat on own initiative really, for child reduced pressure.”Hu Mengyin believed that the high three examinees study intensely, the innermost feelings constrain, needs to speak specially with the human, pours out the worry, the share is joyful. “does not need to discuss that actually any thorough topic, how doesn't need to enlighten, so long as everybody chats the happy line.” Hu Mengyin said that high three true practical knowledge very bitter. Tired, has been tired of has been possible to calm down thinks that oneself does make these is for what? “I at that time thought: For father and mother. I must certainly diligently, repay them to raise graciousness. This is a power. Certainly, must for I later life ......I wanted to go to Yunnan especially at that time to play. I like this thought: Refuel! Has waited for college entrance examination this ridge, I could go to - - this, was also the power.” Perhaps, is precisely the such relaxed point of view, helped her to pass high three - - “me to like successfully chatting, also liked thinking that a good deed encouraged itself, gave itself a smile.” Origin: Beijing test newspaper |