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I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back. I've learned that it takes years to build up trust and only seconds to destroy it. I've leanred that it's not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts.
我明白人无法强迫别人爱自己。我们所能做的就是成为那个被爱的人。剩下的取决于他人。我知道无论我多么在乎,也不会得到同样的回报。我明白多年来建立起的信任在几秒钟内就可以毁于一旦。我明白在生活拥有什么并不重要,重要的是拥有谁。
I've learned that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that. I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others, sometimes you have to learn to firgive yourself. I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other and just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.
我明白即使再好的朋友偶尔也会伤害你,你必须原谅他们。我明白只有别人的原谅是不够的,我们必须学会原谅自己。我明白不管有多么伤心,世界也不会因为你的痛苦而停止。我明白两个人争吵并不意味着他们不爱对方,而两个人不争吵也不意味着他们就彼此相爱。
I've learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon. I've learned that it's hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe. I've learned to love and be loved. I've learned.我明白生命中最在乎的人离去太快。我明白很难界定向善和不伤害他人感情以及支持你的信仰之间的界限。我明白了爱与被爱之间的含义。我明白了。
i am not sure if i am the girl in yer dreams...
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